Xander's been officially declared autistic. It's a blow, but seeing as we've been suspecting as much, it's not as  impacting as it could be. And ultimately, it may make it easier to have patience with him when he's proving a bit unmanageable. That is my prayer, at least. I love the little guy, but its so hard to reach into his world. Here's hoping God brings about some breakthroughs. He is the Almighty, after all :)