"Go back to the grass roots. Open your hearts and search the Scriptures. Bear your cross, follow your Lord and pay no heed to the passing religious vogue. The masses are always wrong. In every generation the number of the righteous are small. Be sure you are among them." (A.W. Tozer, The Root of the Righteous)

quit trying to model other people's fruit.

our eyes should not be on the fruit but the roots of the fruit.

model the Word.

model the Spirit.

get back to the root of it all, and dont be afraid if the fruit God bears in you looks a little different than other people's.